All modern parents want their teenagers to understand that they are up-to-date, knowledgeable potential friends. This is the sugar-coating for the necessary pill of discipline. After all, the teens listen better if they “get” that the boundaries are being set by a cool parent – more of an older sibling, really.

So you’ve figured out – or have been told – that the sounds emanating from the teen-controlled areas of the house are called “hip hop” and are “music.” Or you’ve determined, perhaps based on information obtained from a little bird, that the small electronic implement plugged into your child is playing this sort of music.

You want to give your child a gift that says you are part of the scene but you are wary of repeating a music choice that resulted in “that” look. A good alternative is the gift of a hip hop poster. By following a few simple steps, you can achieve the result of your dreams.

Choose the Right Artist

Finding a hip hop poster that portrays the correct artist or group is essential. The world of hip hop and the related area of “rap” is all about the inner city triad of poverty, street violence and anger. That is why this art form is so popular with middle-class suburban teens. The artists engage in theatrical battles with each other similar to professional wrestling (except for the occasional murder). Selecting a hip hop poster of your teen’s enemy artist is a big no-no.

The hip hop poster gift should also show the artist in either a current or a classic pose that will be appreciated by the person receiving the gift. Hip hop artists change looks and messages according to the events in their lives. You don’t want to come up with a look that has been disparaged by the artist in question. Try to communicate with a friend or sibling of your child to determine which hip hop poster will fit the bill.

Don’t Show Fear

A popular hip hop poster will look quite frightening to the average adult. Whether shopping at the mall or online, remember that this is only a phase for your child. The hip hop poster is not an indication of your little darling’s life plan. Try not to think about living with the poster in your home for an extended period of time. It will probably not be hanging in a spot that will affect your dreams. Practice smiling for the moment of presentation, and then put the hip hop poster out of your mind as quickly as you are able.